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Printable journals, workbooks, and Grief, Trauma & Your Mama™ merch, the gentle tools and cozy things to wear while you do the hard work.

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The Printables

Guided, fillable PDFs for the deep work, download instantly, print at home, keep forever.

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The Grief Library

Every journal and workbook, the whole shelf, in one purchase. Download the one that matches where you are right now, and keep the rest for whenever you need them.

$149

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New · a mother-loss bundle

The Mother Loss Arc

Still Her Daughter, Identity After Mother Loss, and Loving the Girl She Left, plus a new discussion guide that bridges the three. Grieve her, find yourself, love yourself again.

$39.99

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Grief workbook · Digital PDF

The Grief & Trauma Workbook

An attachment-focused, trauma-informed guide. 47 guided pages, 101 steadying tools, and a cut-out values card deck.

Digital PDF $14.99
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new When a Friend Dies, a friendship grief mini book

Friendship grief · Mini book · PDF

When a Friend Dies

A 12-page illustrated mini book on friendship grief, chosen family, and the loss no one prepares you for.

Digital PDF $14.99
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new Still Her Daughter journal cover

Mother-loss journal · Digital PDF

Still Her Daughter

100 pages, eight rooms, written by a grief & trauma therapist. For the love that does not end.

Digital PDF $14.99
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new Still His Daughter journal cover with a polka dot tie

Father-loss journal · Digital PDF

Still His Daughter

100 pages, eight rooms, written by a grief & trauma therapist. For daughters grieving their fathers.

Digital PDF $14.99
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new Still Yours spouse loss journal cover with two coffee mugs

Spouse-loss journal · Digital PDF

Still Yours

102 pages, ten rooms, written by a grief & trauma therapist. For women who lost a husband, wife, or partner.

Digital PDF $14.99
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xo Identity After Mother Loss Journal cover with two lotus flowers

Identity journal · Digital PDF

Identity After Mother Loss

Who you are when she is gone. Seven parts grounded in attachment science, for women 21 and older.

$14.99

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new No Goodbye sudden loss journal cover with a mug, reading glasses and a book left open

Sudden-loss journal · Digital PDF

No Goodbye

82 pages, seven rooms, written by a grief & trauma therapist. For the loss that arrived without warning.

Digital PDF $14.99
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new Still Your Sister sibling loss journal cover with a tree and two swings

Sibling-loss journal · Digital PDF

Still Your Sister

109 pages, nine rooms, written by a grief & trauma therapist. For women who lost a brother or sister.

Digital PDF $14.99
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new Still Your Human pet loss journal cover with a pug puppy

Pet-loss journal · Digital PDF

Still Your Human

91 pages, ten rooms, written by a grief & trauma therapist. For the grief the world shrugs at.

Digital PDF $14.99
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new Still Your Mother child loss journal cover with a dragonfly

Child-loss journal · Digital PDF

Still Your Mother

119 pages, twelve rooms, written by a grief & trauma therapist. For mothers who lost a child.

Digital PDF $14.99
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new Loving the Girl She Left workbook cover with a polaroid of a girl in a field of flowers

Self-worth workbook · Digital PDF

Loving the Girl She Left

102 pages, nine rooms of practice, written by a grief & trauma therapist. Self-worth after mother loss, ten minutes at a time.

Digital PDF $14.99
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new Self-Esteem and Self-Compassion After Loss journal cover with a lotus and its reflection

Guided journal · Digital PDF · Any loss

Self-Esteem & Self-Compassion

51 pages, seven parts, written by a grief & trauma therapist. For speaking to yourself like someone you love.

Digital PDF $14.99
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new Cover of No Time to Prepare, a survivor's guide to traumatic loss, with a cup of tea on a lavender background

Guide · Digital PDF · Sudden loss

No Time to Prepare

29 pages for the weeks and months after a sudden death. Open it anywhere: what shock does to the body, the images that replay, the first weeks, and a card to hand the people around you.

$9.99

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new Cover of The People Who Are Left, a guide for survivors of gun violence loss, with a lit candle on a lavender background

Guide · Digital PDF · Gun violence loss

The People Who Are Left

32 pages for survivors of gun violence loss. Traumatic grief, police and court, reporters and social media, and ways back into your body. Written by a survivor.

$9.99

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new Cover of The Hardest Season, a holiday grief guide, with a lit candle on a lavender background

Guide · Digital PDF · The holidays

The Hardest Season

29 write-in pages for the holidays after a loss. The two-door plan for every gathering, the hard dates from October to January, and lines for the table.

$9.99

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new What to Say (and What Not to Say) cover: two speech bubbles, the second struck through with a no-sign

Guide · Digital PDF · For the friend

What to Say

25 pages for the person standing next to grief. The lines that land, the ones that do not, and a cut-out card to send.

$9.99

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new design Personal Values Cards printable deck cover

Printable card deck · Digital PDF

Personal Values Cards

42 value cards and 9 write-in cards. Print, cut, and sort your way back to who you are, underneath it all.

$5.99

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